Build Capacity Not Dependency
When we give to someone in need, we do one of two things. Our gift can build their capacity, creating dignity and making them stronger and healthier. On the other hand, our gift, though heartfelt and sincerely given, can create dependency on others for their growth, health and development. Our gift can actually keep them stalled in a place of helplessness.
Do With Not Do For
When investing long-term, you’ll find that doing urban ministry with someone is much better than doing it for someone. It’s the difference between relief (doing for people) and development (doing with people). Over and over again, we step in, take charge and do things for people who are quite capable of doing those very things for themselves. This approach (offering relief when development is needed) hasn’t helped. In fact, it has done quite the opposite.
Doing for people, rather than doing with people, is almost always the wrong choice. Granted, there are times when relief (crisis) is necessary. We should be ready to do whatever we can to help. But we must learn to keep our emotions in check and remember the bigger picture. If we are truly interested in transformation, then we will stop doing for people and start doing with people.
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